Managing High Functioning Borderline Personality Disorder with DBT Skills

High-functioning borderline personality disorder (BPD) refers to individuals who can maintain a relatively stable outward appearance while experiencing intense emotional turmoil internally. Despite facing the same core symptoms as other individuals with BPD, high-functioning individuals often excel in their careers or education and maintain seemingly stable relationships. However, these individuals still need support and guidance to effectively manage their symptoms and emotions.

'This article will explore how dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) skills can help those with high-functioning BPD manage their symptoms and lead more balanced lives.


Understanding High Functioning BPD

High-functioning individuals with BPD may appear to have their lives together on the surface, with successful careers and social lives. However, they often struggle with the same emotional instability, relationship challenges, and self-image issues as others with BPD. Their ability to classify and mask their symptoms may make it more challenging to recognize the need for support and treatment.


The primary challenges individuals with high-functioning BPD face include managing emotional instability, addressing unhealthy relational patterns, and coping with feelings of emptiness or self-doubt. Additionally, these individuals may be reluctant to seek help due to the stigma surrounding mental health or the belief that they can handle their issues independently.


Recognizing the signs of high-functioning BPD and acknowledging the need for support is essential for these individuals. This may involve self-reflection, seeking feedback from loved ones, or consulting with mental health professionals to better understand their emotional and relational struggles.


DBT Skills for High-Functioning BPD

DBT offers various emotional regulation skills to help individuals with high-functioning BPD better understand and manage their emotions. These skills include identifying and labeling emotions, increasing emotional awareness, and learning techniques to reduce the emotional intensity, such as mindfulness and self-soothing strategies.


Interpersonal effectiveness skills in DBT can help individuals with high-functioning BPD build healthier relationships and communicate more effectively. These skills include assertiveness training, boundary setting, and learning to express one's needs and feelings in a balanced and respectful manner.


Distress tolerance skills in DBT focus on helping individuals with high-functioning BPD cope with emotional crises and intense feelings without resorting to destructive behaviors. These skills include distraction techniques, self-soothing strategies, and learning to accept and tolerate distressing emotions without acting impulsively.


Integrating DBT Skills into Daily Life

Incorporating mindfulness practices into daily life can help individuals with high-functioning BPD become more aware of their emotions and thought patterns, fostering a non-judgmental attitude towards themselves and their experiences.


Creating a support network of understanding friends, family members, or mental health professionals can provide individuals with high-functioning BPD with the encouragement and guidance needed to navigate their emotional challenges and apply DBT skills effectively.


Working with a mental health professional trained in DBT can help individuals with high-functioning BPD develop a personalized treatment plan incorporating DBT skills and other therapeutic approaches tailored to their unique needs and challenges.


Final Thoughts

Individuals with high-functioning borderline personality disorder can benefit significantly from learning and applying DBT skills to manage their symptoms and improve their emotional well-being. By focusing on emotional regulation, interpersonal effectiveness, and distress tolerance, those with high-functioning BPD can develop healthier coping mechanisms and foster more balanced relationships. Integrating these skills into daily life, building a strong support network, and seeking professional guidance are crucial steps toward a more fulfilling and stable life for individuals with high-functioning BPD. With dedication and persistence, these individuals can harness the power of DBT to understand better and navigate their emotional landscape, ultimately leading to a more balanced and emotionally resilient existence.


Grouport Offers BPD Group Supports Online & DBT Skills Group Online

Grouport Therapy provides online dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) groups to assist individuals struggling with borderline personality disorder (BPD). This type of therapy uses mindfulness and acceptance to increase self-awareness and control over intense emotions to avoid destructive behaviors and improve interpersonal relationships. Our online group therapy sessions teach members how to incorporate various types of psychotherapy, including Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), into their daily lives so they can learn how to interact with others and more effectively express themselves.


Our licensed therapist leads weekly group sessions conducted remotely in the comfort of members' homes. According to participant feedback, 70% experienced significant improvements within 8 weeks.


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Due to licensing restrictions, our DBT online group therapy sessions are for Florida, New York, and New Jersey residents. If you are not a resident of either state, consider our dialectical behavior therapy skills group. It is a therapist-instructor-led online group that will teach you strategic new skills to replace behaviors and emotions causing friction in your daily life and relationships.

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