Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and Opposite Action

DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) is a therapeutic approach that focuses on helping individuals develop skills to manage intense emotions, improve relationships, and cope with challenging situations. One key component of DBT is "opposite action," which is a technique used to help individuals  change their emotional responses and behaviors.

In this article, we will cover what is opposite action in dialectical behavior therapy, and how this method can be applied to an online group therapy setting.

What is opposite action in DBT?

Opposite action is based on the idea that our emotional responses and behaviors are often automatic, unhelpful, or unhealthy.

Opposite action aims to help individuals break out of these automatic patterns and develop more adaptive emotional responses and behaviors. The concept of opposite action is closely related to the DBT skill of "radical acceptance," which involves accepting reality and not fighting against it.


Opposite action involves identifying an emotion or behavior causing problems for an individual and intentionally doing the opposite of what they would typically do in response to that emotion or behavior. For example, if someone is feeling sad and tends to isolate themselves, the opposite action may involve intentionally reaching out to friends or engaging in social activities. Similarly, if someone is anxious and tends to avoid certain situations or activities, the opposite action may involve intentionally facing or engaging in those situations.


Opposite action can be challenging, especially when our emotions and behaviors are deeply ingrained. However, practice can help individuals gain greater control over their emotional responses and behaviors. Opposite action is often used with other DBT skills, such as mindfulness and emotion regulation, to help individuals better manage their feelings and behaviors and improve their overall well-being.


Incorporating opposite actions in a group therapy setting

Opposite action in DBT can be valuable to incorporate into group therapy settings. Here are some ways that opposite action can be applied in a group therapy setting:

  1. Role-playing exercises: Group therapy sessions can include role-playing exercises where individuals act out a situation where they are experiencing a complex emotion or behavior. The group members can then suggest opposite actions to help them manage their feeling or behavior more effectively.
  2. Group discussion: Opposite action can be introduced as a topic for group discussion, where individuals share situations where they struggled to manage their emotions or behaviors and how they used opposite action to cope.
  3. Group exercises: Group exercises can specifically target opposite action skills. For example, group members can be given a list of emotions and behaviors and asked to devise opposite actions for each one.
  4. Modeling: The group therapist can model opposite action during group therapy sessions by demonstrating how to use the skill in response to a complex emotion or behavior. Modeling can help group members see the skill in action and learn how to apply it to their own lives.
  5. Homework assignments: Group therapy sessions can include homework assignments where group members are asked to practice using opposite actions in their daily lives and report on their experiences during the next session.

Incorporating opposite actions into group therapy sessions can help individuals develop more adaptive responses to difficult emotions and behaviors. By working together in a group setting, individuals can also learn from each other's experiences and support each other in applying the skill.


Grouport offers DBT skills group sessions

If you're struggling with daily life and relationship issues due to negative behaviors and emotions, consider enrolling in the Grouport DBT series by Grouport Therapy. Our 12-week program can equip you with new skills to improve your mental health and well-being.


Our group meets once a week at a scheduled time, and you'll receive access to session links via email after enrolling and paying for the program. By joining our DBT skills group, you can improve relationships, manage anxiety, and reduce emotional suffering, regaining hope for the future.


Don't hesitate to take the first step towards a better life. Our next session is waiting for you. Join our Grouport DBT series today and start improving your mental health alongside a supportive group of individuals.

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