At Grouport, we offer a range of online therapy options to help individuals experiencing suicidal thoughts understand the pain driving those thoughts, develop the skills to survive crisis moments, and build a life that generates reasons to keep living. Many members choose to mix and match therapy formats.
Online therapy for suicidal ideation: personalized, flexible, and therapist-led. Understand the pain driving the thoughts, develop the skills to survive your worst moments, and build a life that generates reasons to keep living.
Whether you're interested in online group therapy for suicidal ideation, individual therapy sessions, a combination of both, or our virtual IOP for more intensive care, you'll start by selecting the format that fits your needs and schedule. You can customize the frequency of sessions and even pair live therapy with our DBT self-guided program for added support between sessions. Just complete our onboarding form and sign up directly for the plan that suits you best.
After signing up, you'll connect with a dedicated care coordinator who will discuss your mental health challenges, goals, and preferences. They'll walk you through the range of therapy options best suited to your needs for managing suicidal ideation. You'll make the final choice about your care, including which therapists you'll meet with and select session times that are most convenient for you.
Attend your weekly online therapy sessions to build coping skills, mood regulation strategies, and stability tools tailored to suicidal ideation. Our team will be here to support you at every step of the way, ensuring you're happy with your care plan and helping you make changes whenever needed.
Suicidal thoughts are a signal that your pain has exceeded your coping capacity. Therapy works by expanding that capacity and by reducing the pain.
Common signs to watch for include:
If you recognize these patterns in yourself or a loved one, working with a licensed therapist can help.

Suicidal ideation does not just occupy one corner of your mind. It reshapes how you experience everything: your relationships, your future, your sense of self, and your willingness to engage with life. Understanding these effects helps clarify why treatment matters and what therapy can change.
Suicidal ideation creates a cognitive narrowing that researchers call constriction: your perspective collapses until death seems like the only solution to your pain. You lose the ability to see alternatives, to imagine things getting better, or to remember that you have survived difficult periods before. This narrowing is not a rational assessment of your situation; it is a symptom. Therapy specifically works to widen that perspective, not through empty reassurance, but by systematically challenging the hopelessness that feels like truth.
Suicidal ideation almost always co-occurs with other conditions: depression, anxiety, PTSD, borderline personality disorder, substance use, or chronic pain. The suicidal thoughts are often driven by these underlying conditions, and treating them directly reduces the ideation. Many people find that when the depression lifts or the trauma is processed, the desire to die lifts with it.
Suicidal ideation creates a painful paradox: you need connection, but the thoughts make you withdraw. You may believe others would be better off without you, that no one could understand, or that reaching out would be a burden. This withdrawal increases the isolation that fuels the ideation. Meanwhile, the people who care about you sense something is wrong but cannot reach you. The gap between your internal experience and your external presentation grows wider.
Most people with suicidal thoughts never tell anyone. The secrecy itself becomes exhausting: maintaining a functional exterior while your internal world is consumed by thoughts of death, managing the energy required to appear normal, the constant calculation of what to say and what to hide. Therapy provides a space where the secrecy ends, and for many people, simply saying the words out loud to someone who does not panic is the first moment of relief.
Suicidal ideation consumes cognitive and emotional resources that are no longer available for the rest of your life. Concentration suffers, motivation disappears, work performance declines, and daily tasks that once felt automatic now require enormous effort. You may be going through the motions while feeling completely disconnected from the life you are living.
Even when you have told no one, suicidal ideation affects the people in your life. Your withdrawal, your emotional unavailability, your irritability or flatness, your declining participation in shared life: these are all visible to the people who know you, even if they cannot name what is wrong. Children, partners, friends, and family members are affected by the change in you, which is important to recognize not as guilt but as evidence that you matter to others more than the ideation allows you to believe.
Starting therapy when you are already exhausted and unmotivated can feel like a big ask. Here is what your first few sessions typically look like.
Your therapist will ask about the suicidal thoughts: when they started, what triggers them, how intense they are, and how they are affecting your life. You do not need to have a perfect explanation or the right words. Your therapist has had this conversation before and will respond with calm, professional concern, not panic, judgment, or an automatic call to emergency services. The goal of the first session is understanding, not intervention.
Your therapist will conduct a collaborative safety assessment: understanding the current level of risk, whether you have a plan, what protective factors are in place, and what you need to stay safe. This is not an interrogation; it is a conversation designed to help both of you understand where you are right now and what kind of support you need. If a safety plan is needed, you will build one together in this session.
You and your therapist will define what progress looks like for you. This might include reducing the frequency or intensity of suicidal thoughts, developing a safety plan you trust, addressing the underlying condition driving the ideation (depression, trauma, hopelessness), rebuilding one connection in your life, or identifying one reason to stay alive that feels genuine rather than obligatory. Goals are honest and grounded in where you actually are.
Your therapist will introduce evidence-based techniques: DBT skills for surviving crisis moments, CBT to challenge the hopelessness and cognitive distortions maintaining the ideation, safety planning for the moments when thoughts intensify, and approaches to address underlying conditions. You will leave with specific tools for the next time the thoughts come, and a clear path forward. The most important thing you will leave with is the knowledge that someone understands what you are going through and that treatment works.
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Stephanie

“Grouport is time flexible and affordable and if it didn’t exist, I don’t know where I would go. I had looked into other places before Grouport and there really wasn’t any option like it.”
Michael

“I highly recommend this to anyone who is struggling with anxiety or depression. The therapists are top notch and have made me feel really comfortable and my anxiety has improved tremendously in only a few sessions!”
Isabel

"I joined Grouport to work on myself and to heal. I’m learning so much at every session! The change I see not only in myself but in my fellow group members is abundantly encouraging and profoundly fulfilling. Group therapy with Grouport is a powerful healing tool."
Sheldon

“I was feeling very down at the end of 2020 and I was ready to do something drastic that I know I'd likely regret. The group definitely helped show me that there are people who feel the same way as I do.”
Nancy

“The therapy from Grouport is high quality and convenient. I am becoming much more self aware and am liking myself more. My relationships at work are better and I’m much happier.”
Emily

“I like the connection you can make with total strangers and the confidentiality it comes with.”
Danielle

"Grouport can help you with your issues. Their therapists are well trained to work with you on your issues. I felt my anxiety greatly improve after only a few sessions. I highly recommend it!"
Glenn

"Grouport's approach to DBT is a real strength. This approach provides tools and methods for working with difficult emotions and getting a handle on them. It has given me hope where other approaches have failed."
At Grouport, our virtual suicidal ideation therapy integrates several evidence-based techniques designed to help you survive the moments when the pain feels unbearable, challenge the hopelessness that narrows your perspective, and build a life that generates genuine reasons to keep living:
DBT was developed specifically for chronically suicidal patients and has more research supporting its effectiveness for suicidal ideation than any other treatment. The core framework is built around a hierarchy that places reducing suicidal behavior as the highest treatment priority. DBT teaches four skill sets: mindfulness (observing suicidal thoughts without acting on them), distress tolerance (surviving crisis moments when the urge to die is strongest), emotion regulation (managing the unbearable feelings driving the ideation), and interpersonal effectiveness (reaching out for help and building the connections that reduce isolation). DBT does not just teach you to resist suicidal urges; it helps you build a life worth living.
Distress tolerance skills are the immediate tools for surviving the moments when suicidal thoughts are most intense and the urge to act is strongest. The TIPP skill (Temperature change, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, Progressive muscle relaxation) can reduce acute emotional arousal within minutes. Radical acceptance teaches you to acknowledge the pain without adding the suffering of fighting it. The crisis survival strategies provide a concrete, step-by-step sequence for getting through the next hour, the next thirty minutes, the next five minutes. These skills work because suicidal crises, like all emotional crises, are time-limited. If you can survive the peak, the intensity passes.
If distress tolerance keeps you alive during the crisis, emotion regulation reduces how often crises occur. Suicidal ideation is driven by emotional pain that feels permanent and inescapable, but emotions are not permanent, even when they feel that way. Emotion regulation skills teach you to identify the specific emotions driving the ideation (hopelessness, shame, grief, rage, loneliness), understand their triggers, and intervene before they escalate to the level where suicidal thoughts activate. Over time, building these skills reduces both the frequency and intensity of suicidal episodes.
CBT for suicide prevention (specifically the Wenzel and Beck model) targets the cognitive distortions that make death seem like the only solution. The most dangerous distortion is hopelessness: the unshakeable belief that nothing will ever get better. CBT helps you recognize hopelessness as a cognitive state, not an accurate prediction of the future. It also addresses perceived burdensomeness ("Everyone would be better off without me"), thwarted belonging ("I do not fit anywhere"), and the tunnel vision that eliminates alternatives from your awareness. By systematically challenging these distortions, CBT literally widens the perspective that suicidal thinking has narrowed.
Mindfulness teaches you to observe suicidal thoughts as thoughts rather than commands. When the thought "I should kill myself" arises, mindfulness creates the ability to notice it ("I am having the thought that I should kill myself") without fusing with it, believing it, or acting on it. This defusion is critical because suicidal thoughts present themselves as urgent truths that demand immediate action. Mindfulness reveals them as mental events that arise, peak, and pass. With practice, you develop the capacity to hold suicidal thoughts in awareness without being controlled by them, creating space for choice.
Reasons-for-living work is an evidence-based approach that systematically builds and strengthens your connection to life. When suicidal ideation is active, your brain selectively filters out reasons to live while amplifying reasons to die. This is not a balanced assessment; it is a symptom. Reasons-for-living work counteracts this filtering by identifying, documenting, and regularly revisiting the people, experiences, values, goals, and responsibilities that connect you to life. Research shows that people with stronger reasons-for-living endorsement have significantly lower suicide risk, even when the level of pain is equivalent. This work does not dismiss your pain; it ensures the pain does not erase everything else.
Every Grouport therapist is a licensed, accredited mental health professional with specialized training in suicidal ideation, crisis intervention, and emotional dysregulation.
Our therapists typically have over a decade of clinical experience across diverse settings, with specialized expertise in suicidal ideation, crisis intervention, and safety planning, and evidence-based interventions like DBT, CBT for suicide prevention, safety planning, and reasons-for-living work.
We continually evaluate outcomes through internal studies and outcomes studies with researchers from leading universities such as Carnegie Mellon, University of Essex, and University of Cologne.
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of our members start with moderate to severe mental health symptoms
70%
of our members feel significantly better within just 8 weeks
50%
of our members achieve remission levels within just 8 weeks

Group, individual, couples, family, IOP, and teen therapy — all online, all therapist-led. Mix and match care options to fit your needs — and get discounted pricing when you bundle.

Suicidal Ideation often co-occurs with other mental health conditions. Our licensed therapists are experienced in treating a wide range of challenges, and many members address multiple concerns simultaneously through our flexible therapy options.
Grouport provides online group therapy, individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, teen therapy, intensive outpatient program (IOP), all held virtually over video chat. We also offer a DBT self-guided program. Many members combine multiple therapy types to best fit their needs.
Suicidal ideation refers to thinking about or considering suicide. It is distinct from suicidal intent, which is the decision to act on those thoughts. Many people experience ideation without intent, but the thoughts themselves are clinically significant and treatable. Ideation exists on a spectrum from passive ("I wish I were not here") to active (thinking about specific methods), and all points on that spectrum deserve professional support. Suicidal ideation is not a diagnosis itself but a symptom of overwhelming pain that has exceeded your current ability to cope. Therapy works by both reducing the pain and expanding your capacity to manage it. If you are in immediate crisis, please contact the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988 or go to your nearest emergency room.
Passive suicidal ideation, such as wishing you were not alive without a specific plan or intent to act, is treatable through outpatient therapy. Active suicidal ideation, which involves a specific plan, access to means, or intent to act, is a life threatening situation. If you are in a life threatening situation or in need of immediate assistance, please contact the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988 or go to your nearest emergency room. For additional emergency resources, these emergency resources can help. Grouport provides ongoing outpatient therapy for suicidal ideation as well as continued treatment after crisis stabilization.
Yes, every Grouport therapist is accredited and licensed. Our network includes Licensed Psychologists (PhD, PsyD), Licensed Social Workers (LCSW), Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHC), and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFT). Our therapists are trained in DBT (developed specifically for suicidal patients), CBT for suicide prevention, safety planning, and crisis intervention.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) has the strongest research base for treating suicidal ideation. It was specifically developed for chronically suicidal patients. Research shows DBT significantly reduces suicidal ideation, suicide attempts, emergency room visits, and psychiatric hospitalizations. CBT for suicide prevention (the Wenzel and Beck model) also has strong evidence. At Grouport, these approaches are available through individual therapy, group therapy, and our DBT self-guided program.
This is one of the most common fears that prevents people from being honest about suicidal thoughts, and it is important to address directly. Therapists are trained to assess risk collaboratively, not reactively. Having suicidal thoughts does not automatically trigger involuntary hospitalization. Your therapist will work with you to assess the level of risk and develop a safety plan. Involuntary intervention is reserved for situations where there is imminent, acute danger with no available alternative. For the vast majority of people experiencing suicidal ideation, therapy is the appropriate level of care.
Passive suicidal ideation involves wishing you were dead or not alive without a specific plan or intent to act: thoughts like "I wish I could go to sleep and not wake up" or "I do not want to be here anymore." Passive ideation is treatable through outpatient therapy like Grouport. Active suicidal ideation involves a specific plan, access to means, or intent to act. Active suicidal ideation is a life threatening situation. If you are in a life threatening situation or in need of immediate assistance, please contact the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988 or go to your nearest emergency room. For additional emergency resources, these emergency resources can help. Grouport is where ongoing treatment continues once you are safe and stabilized.
Many people notice reduction in the intensity and frequency of suicidal thoughts within 8-12 weeks of DBT. Building a full toolkit of coping skills and addressing the underlying conditions (depression, trauma, hopelessness) typically takes 3-6 months. Longer-term support may be beneficial for chronic suicidal ideation or complex underlying conditions. The goal is not just the absence of suicidal thoughts but the presence of a life that feels worth living, and building that takes time.
Finding the right therapy starts with understanding your needs. If you need private, focused work on the specific pain and patterns driving the suicidal thoughts, individual therapy is ideal. If you benefit from being with others who understand and from the experience of not being alone in this, group therapy can be transformative. For persistent or intensifying ideation, our virtual IOP offers multiple sessions per week. Schedule a free call with a care coordinator for a personalized plan.
We offer flexible therapy options with straightforward pricing:
Online Group Therapy: Averages $32/session ($140/month).
Online Individual Therapy: Averages $103/session ($448/month).
Online Couples Therapy: Averages $114/session ($492/month).
Online Family Therapy: Averages $148/session ($640/month).
Virtual IOP: Averages $311/week ($1,348/month).
Online Teen Therapy: Averages $103/session ($448/month).
DBT Self-Guided Program: One-time fee of $500.
Payment Options: Monthly, Quarterly (Save 10%), Biannually (Save 15%). No long-term commitment. Switch therapists anytime. Cancel anytime!
Yes. We offer separate therapy groups for Adults (18+) and Teens and Adolescents (under 18). Our teen therapy programs provide developmentally appropriate treatment with therapists who specialize in working with young people. Suicidal ideation in adolescents requires specialized, developmentally appropriate care, and early intervention is critical.
Yes. Suicidal ideation is one of the most treatable mental health experiences. DBT research shows significant reductions in suicidal ideation, attempts, and hospitalizations. The pain that drives suicidal thinking, whether it comes from depression, trauma, loss, isolation, or hopelessness, is addressable through therapy. Many people who once saw no reason to live go on to build lives that are genuinely meaningful. Recovery is not about pretending the pain never existed; it is about developing the capacity to hold pain while also holding hope.
Our therapy outcomes are backed by outcomes studies with researchers from leading universities such as Carnegie Mellon, University of Essex, and University of Cologne. 80% of our members start therapy with moderate to severe symptoms. Within just 8 weeks, 70% of members see clinically significant reduction in anxiety and depression, and 50% achieve remission levels.
You can cancel your subscription at any time. No long-term commitment is required. Simply email us at support@grouporttherapy.com and we will send you a quick cancellation form to fill out. If your sessions occur within the member portal, you can also cancel under the manage subscription tab.
The pain you are feeling is real, but hopelessness is a liar. Things can change, and therapy can help them change. You do not have to figure this out alone.
