Clinically Effective Online Therapy for Codependency

At Grouport, we offer a range of online therapy options to help individuals break free from codependent patterns, establish healthy boundaries, and develop a stronger sense of self-worth and identity outside of their relationships. Many members choose to mix and match therapy formats to create a comprehensive, personalized treatment plan.

Online Group Therapy

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Online Group Therapy for Codependency

Benefit from 100% virtual group therapy with a close-knit group of typically 6-8 members and a licensed therapist. Practice setting boundaries in real time, gain perspective from others navigating similar relational patterns, and build the confidence to prioritize your own needs.

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Online Individual Therapy

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Online Individual Therapy for Codependency

Get personalized online treatment for codependency. Our individual therapy helps you understand the root causes of people-pleasing and caretaking patterns, develop assertiveness skills, and rebuild your identity through evidence-based approaches like CBT, DBT, and relational therapy.

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Virtual Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP)

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Virtual IOP for Codependency

For those who need a higher level of support, our virtual IOP offers multiple therapy sessions each week, combining individual and group care at a more intensive cadence for deeper relational healing.

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Online Family Therapy

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Online Family Therapy for Codependency

Our online family therapy focuses on helping families recognize codependent dynamics, improve communication, establish healthy boundaries, and build relationships where each member feels valued as an individual.

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Online Teen Therapy

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Online Teen Therapy for Codependency

If your teen is struggling with people-pleasing, difficulty saying no, or losing themselves in friendships and relationships, learn how we tailor our teen therapy programs to address codependent patterns early.

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Online Couples Therapy

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Online Couples Therapy for Codependency

If codependency is shaping your romantic relationship, couples therapy can help you and your partner identify unhealthy dynamics, develop balanced communication, and build a partnership based on mutual respect rather than caretaking.

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Build DBT skills at your own pace with our therapist-developed program — featuring video lessons, worksheets, and tools you can access anytime.

Start Breaking Free from Codependency in 3 Simple Steps

Online therapy for codependency: personalized, flexible, and therapist-led. We'll guide you with dedicated support every step of the way.

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01   Choose the Right Therapy Format & Plan

Whether you're interested in online group therapy for codependency, individual therapy sessions, a combination of both, or our virtual IOP for more intensive care, you'll start by selecting the format that fits your needs and schedule. You can customize the frequency of sessions and even pair live therapy with our DBT self-guided program for added support between sessions. Just complete our onboarding form and sign up directly for the plan that suits you best.

02   Have a 1:1 Consultation with a Care Coordinator

After signing up, you'll connect with a dedicated care coordinator who will discuss your mental health challenges, goals, and preferences. They'll walk you through the range of therapy options best suited to your needs for managing codependency. You'll make the final choice about your care, including which therapists you'll meet with and select session times that are most convenient for you.

03   Begin Treatment

Attend your weekly online therapy sessions to build coping skills, mood regulation strategies, and stability tools tailored to codependency. Our team will be here to support you at every step of the way, ensuring you're happy with your care plan and helping you make changes whenever needed.

Recognizing Symptoms of Codependency: Signs You Shouldn't Ignore

Codependency is more than being caring or supportive. It's a pattern of behavior where your sense of identity, self-worth, and emotional well-being become excessively tied to another person, often at the expense of your own needs, goals, and health.

Common signs to watch for include:

  • People-Pleasing and Difficulty Saying No Consistently prioritizing others' needs over your own, agreeing to things you don't want to do, and feeling guilty or anxious when you try to set boundaries or put yourself first.
  • Excessive Caretaking Feeling responsible for other people's emotions, problems, and decisions. Taking on a "fixer" or "rescuer" role in relationships, even when it drains you or enables unhealthy behavior in others.
  • Low Self-Worth Outside Relationships Struggling to feel valuable, important, or whole without being needed by someone else. Your sense of identity may revolve around your role as a partner, parent, friend, or caretaker.
  • Fear of Abandonment or Rejection Staying in unhealthy or even harmful relationships because the fear of being alone feels worse. Tolerating mistreatment, suppressing your own feelings, or avoiding conflict at all costs to keep the relationship intact.
  • Difficulty Recognizing Your Own Needs Being so focused on others that you've lost touch with what you actually want, need, or feel. You may struggle to answer basic questions about your own preferences, goals, or emotions.

If you recognize these patterns in yourself or a loved one, working with a licensed therapist can help.

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How Codependency Affects Daily Life

Codependency doesn't just affect your relationships. It can shape how you show up at work, how you spend your time, and how you feel about yourself when no one else is around. Understanding how it shows up is the first step toward reclaiming your life.

Romantic Relationships

Codependency often creates an imbalanced dynamic where one partner over-gives while the other under-contributes. You may tolerate mistreatment, suppress your own needs, or feel responsible for your partner's emotions. Therapy helps you recognize these patterns and build relationships rooted in equality and mutual respect.

Work & Professional Life

Codependent patterns often show up at work as over-functioning, taking on other people's responsibilities, difficulty delegating, and burnout from saying yes to everything. Therapy helps you set professional boundaries, advocate for yourself, and recognize that your worth isn't defined by how much you do for others.

Self-Identity & Self-Worth

When your identity is built around being needed, you may not know who you are outside of your relationships. Codependency can leave you feeling empty, lost, or purposeless when you're not actively caring for someone else. Therapy helps you reconnect with your own interests, values, and goals.

Friendships & Family

Codependency doesn't only affect romantic partners. It can shape your friendships, your relationship with your parents or siblings, and even how you interact with your children. Therapy helps you recognize these dynamics across all your relationships and build healthier patterns.

Emotional & Physical Health

Chronic people-pleasing and suppressed needs create persistent stress, anxiety, resentment, and exhaustion. Many codependent individuals experience burnout, insomnia, tension headaches, and digestive issues. Our therapists help you develop self-care practices that aren't optional but essential.

Decision-Making & Autonomy

When you're used to making decisions based on what others want or need, you may struggle to trust your own judgment. Codependency can make even small choices feel overwhelming. Therapy helps you rebuild confidence in your own decision-making and develop a stronger sense of autonomy.

What to Expect in Your First Codependency Therapy Session

Starting therapy can feel intimidating, especially if you're managing codependency. Here's what your first few sessions typically look like, so you know exactly what to expect.

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Initial Assessment & Getting to Know You

Your therapist will ask about your relationships past and present, the roles you played growing up, and the patterns that have kept you putting others' needs ahead of your own. This isn't a test. It's a collaborative conversation designed to help your therapist understand how codependency shows up in your life and what kind of support will help most.

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Setting Therapy Goals Together

You and your therapist will identify specific, achievable goals, such as setting boundaries without guilt, practicing saying no, untangling your identity from caretaking roles, or addressing the fears of abandonment and conflict that fuel people-pleasing. These goals evolve as you progress and become the roadmap for your treatment.

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Learning Your First Coping Tools

Most therapists will introduce practical techniques early, such as assertiveness scripts for difficult conversations, grounding tools for the guilt and anxiety that come up when you prioritize yourself, and self-check-ins for noticing when you're slipping into old caretaking patterns. You'll leave your first session with something tangible you can use immediately, not just a plan to "talk more next week."

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Building Momentum Over the First Month

By your third or fourth session, you'll start to see the connection between your current relationship patterns and the beliefs you learned early in life about love, worth, and responsibility. Your therapist will begin introducing deeper interventions, whether that's CBT work on core beliefs about worthiness, DBT interpersonal effectiveness skills, or exploring attachment and family-of-origin dynamics. Many Grouport members report feeling noticeably more grounded and clearer about their own needs within the first 4-6 weeks of consistent therapy.

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Your Codependency Treatment Starts Here

At Grouport, our virtual codependency therapy integrates several evidence-based therapeutic techniques designed to help you understand your relational patterns, build healthy boundaries, and develop a stronger sense of self:

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT helps individuals identify and restructure the thought patterns that drive codependent behavior ("If I don't help them, no one will," "Their feelings are my responsibility," "I'm selfish if I say no"). It builds assertiveness skills, challenges guilt-driven thinking, and develops healthier relational beliefs.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

DBT is especially helpful for the emotional intensity that often accompanies codependency. It teaches mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness skills that help you tolerate the guilt of setting boundaries, manage anxiety about others' reactions, and communicate your needs clearly.

Attachment-Based Therapy

Attachment-based therapy explores how early relationship experiences shaped your current relational patterns. Many codependent behaviors are rooted in childhood experiences of insecure attachment, parentification, or emotional neglect. Understanding these roots helps you develop more secure, balanced ways of connecting with others.

Interpersonal & Social Rhythm Therapy (IPSRT)

IPSRT focuses on stabilizing daily routines, particularly sleep, wake times, meals, and social interactions to reduce the likelihood of mood episodes. It also helps manage relationship problems that may trigger or worsen codependency symptoms.

Mindfulness-Based Assertiveness Training (MBRP)

Psychoeducation helps you understand the origins and mechanics of codependency, including how it develops, why it persists, and what keeps the cycle going. Building self-awareness around your patterns is the foundation for lasting change.

Inner Child & Self-Compassion Work

Many codependent patterns stem from unmet childhood needs. Inner child work helps you identify and heal those early wounds, while self-compassion practices teach you to treat yourself with the same kindness you so readily give to others.

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Meet Our Licensed Codependency Therapists

Every Grouport therapist is a licensed, accredited mental health professional with specialized training in codependency, relational patterns, and boundary-setting, so you can feel confident in the care you receive.

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Our therapists typically have over a decade of clinical experience across diverse settings including hospitals, community mental health centers, and private practice, with specialized expertise in codependency, attachment patterns, and evidence-based interventions like CBT, DBT, and relational therapy.

We continually evaluate outcomes through internal studies and research collaborations with researchers from universities such as Carnegie Mellon, University of Essex, and University of Cologne, ensuring our codependency therapy is grounded in the latest clinical evidence.

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Grouport’s Results

80%of our members start with moderate to severe mental health symptoms

70% of our members feel significantly better within just 8 weeks

50% of our members achieve remission levels within just 8 weeks

80%
of our members start with moderate to severe mental health symptoms

70%
of our members feel significantly better within just 8 weeks

50%
of our members achieve remission levels within just 8 weeks

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All Your Therapy Needs, All in One Place

Group, individual, couples, family, IOP, and teen therapy — all online, all therapist-led. Mix and match care options to fit your needs — and get discounted pricing when you bundle.

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Group Therapy

$35/session
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Individual Therapy

$112/session
billed at $448/month

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Couples Therapy

$123/session
billed at $492/month

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Family Therapy

$160/session
billed at $640/month

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IOP Therapy

$337/week
billed at $1,348/month

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We Also Treat These Conditions

Codependency often co-occurs with other mental health conditions. Our licensed therapists are experienced in treating a wide range of challenges, and many members address multiple concerns simultaneously through our flexible therapy options.

Frequently Asked Questions

What services does Grouport Offer?

Grouport provides online group therapy, individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, teen therapy, intensive outpatient program (IOP), all held virtually over video chat. We also offer a DBT self-guided program, which gives you lifetime access to a self-paced DBT program with therapist-guided lessons.

Many members combine multiple therapy types, such as group + individual therapy, to best fit their needs.

Why Choose Online Codependency Therapy?

Online therapy has revolutionized mental health care, making it easier to access licensed mental health professionals than ever before. It's convenient and accessible with no need to commute or wait in crowded offices. You can access codependency treatment from your home, making it easier to prioritize yourself without adding logistical stress. Each group therapy session is led by licensed therapists with experience treating codependency and relational patterns. With group sessions starting at just $35, getting professional support for boundary-setting and self-discovery is within reach without financial strain.

What are the objectives of Codependency Therapy?

Virtual group therapy or online individual therapy for codependency is designed to help you develop healthier relational patterns, rebuild your sense of self, and achieve lasting change in a supportive environment. The key objectives include:

Understanding Your Patterns: Helping individuals recognize the specific relational dynamics, beliefs, and emotional triggers that drive codependent behavior.

Building Boundary Skills: Teaching evidence-based techniques for setting and maintaining healthy boundaries, managing guilt, and communicating your needs assertively.

Developing a Assertiveness Training Plan: Creating personalized strategies for identifying early warning signs, managing high-risk situations, and maintaining accountability in your recovery.

Strengthening Relationships: Helping individuals develop balanced, mutual relationships based on respect rather than caretaking, and communicate needs without guilt or fear of abandonment.

What are the main types of codependency?

Codependency presents in different forms depending on the relationships and patterns involved. Relationship Codependency involves losing your sense of self in romantic partnerships, tolerating mistreatment, and deriving your self-worth from being needed by your partner. Family Codependency often develops in families affected by addiction, mental illness, or dysfunction, where a child learns to suppress their own needs to manage a parent's emotions or behavior. Caretaker Codependency involves an excessive need to rescue, fix, or save others, often at great personal cost. Many people also experience codependency alongside other conditions like anxiety, depression, or trauma. Compassionate, evidence-based treatment can help you build healthier, more balanced relationships.

Are Grouport's licensed therapists qualified to treat codependency?

Yes, every Grouport therapist is accredited and licensed. Our network includes:

Licensed Psychologists (PhD, PsyD)
Licensed Social Workers (LCSW)
Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHC)
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapists (LMFT)

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Where is Grouport available?

Grouport is available worldwide! All sessions are held virtually over video chat. We offer separate therapy groups for Adults (18+) and Teens & Adolescents (under 18), so each age group receives care tailored to their needs.

What other conditions does Grouport treat alongside codependency?

Many people with codependency also experience co-occurring conditions. Our licensed therapists specialize in treating anxiety, depression, OCD, trauma and PTSD, borderline personality disorder, grief and loss, chronic illness, relationship issues, and anger management, among many other mental health conditions and life challenges.

We use evidence-based approaches including Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), CBT, and other proven modalities. Many members address multiple concerns simultaneously through our flexible therapy options.

Do I get to choose my group/therapist?

Yes! If you're signing up for 1 group session per week, you'll choose your preferred group, therapist, and schedule during signup. For bundled plans or other therapy types, a care coordinator will reach out to match you. Most members are placed within a few hours, or within 24-72 hours max. You can always switch groups or therapists.

How do I know Grouport's codependency therapy is effective?

Our therapy is backed by outcomes studies with researchers from leading universities such as Carnegie Mellon, University of Essex, and University of Cologne.

80% of members start with moderate to severe symptoms.
70% see clinically significant reduction within 8 weeks.
50% achieve remission levels within 8 weeks.
90% would be disappointed if they lost access to Grouport.

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How Can I Find the Right Codependency Therapy for My Needs?

At Grouport, we make it easy to choose the best personalized services for your unique mental health challenges. Combine group therapy with other treatments, choose individual therapy for personalized attention, or tailor the frequency of sessions based on your schedule.

Our licensed therapists lead sessions multiple times a week to ensure flexibility. If you need help choosing the right treatment plan, our care coordinators are here to help! You can schedule a call with a care coordinator or email us at support@grouporttherapy.com.

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How much does Grouport codependency therapy cost?

We offer flexible therapy options with straightforward pricing:

Online Group Therapy: Averages $32/session ($140/month).

Online Individual Therapy: Averages $103/session ($448/month).

Online Couples Therapy: Averages $114/session ($492/month).

Online Family Therapy: Averages $148/session ($640/month).

Virtual IOP: Averages $311/week ($1,348/month).

Online Teen Therapy: Averages $103/session ($448/month).

DBT Self-Guided Program: One-time fee of $500.

Payment Options: Monthly, Quarterly (Save 10%), Biannually (Save 15%). No long-term commitment. Switch therapists anytime. Cancel anytime!

Do you take insurance for codependency therapy?

We currently do not accept insurance. However, Grouport offers flat monthly pricing with no surprise bills, FSA/HSA eligibility, and sessions averaging as low as $23–$32 for group therapy. We can provide detailed invoices for potential out-of-network reimbursement.

How do I cancel codependency therapy?

You can cancel your subscription at any time. No long-term commitment. Full access through your last billing period. If your sessions are accessed via email links, email us at support@grouporttherapy.com and we'll send you a quick cancellation form to fill out. If sessions occur within the member portal, cancel under the "manage subscription" tab.

Is codependency a diagnosable mental health condition?

Codependency is not a formal diagnosis in the DSM-5, but it is a widely recognized pattern of behavior that causes significant emotional distress and relational dysfunction. Many therapists consider it a relational pattern that often co-occurs with anxiety, depression, trauma, or personality disorders. Regardless of diagnostic labels, if codependent patterns are affecting your quality of life, relationships, or emotional well-being, therapy can help. Our licensed therapists are trained to work with codependency as a core focus of treatment.

Can I work on codependency in therapy even if my partner or family member won't participate?

Absolutely. Codependency therapy is about your patterns, not anyone else's participation. You don't need your partner, parent, or family member to join therapy in order to make meaningful progress. Individual and group therapy help you understand your own relational behaviors, set boundaries, and develop a stronger sense of self, regardless of whether the other person changes. Many members find that as they shift their own patterns, the dynamics in their relationships begin to shift as well.

How is codependency therapy different from couples therapy?

Couples therapy focuses on the relationship between two partners, while codependency therapy focuses on your individual patterns across all relationships. Codependency therapy helps you understand why you over-give, people-please, or lose yourself in relationships, and builds skills like boundary-setting, assertiveness, and self-worth that apply to every area of your life. That said, some members benefit from doing both: codependency therapy to work on individual patterns, and couples therapy to improve the specific dynamics with a partner.

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Whether you're exhausted from over-giving, stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns, or struggling to set boundaries, therapy can help you rebuild your sense of self. Take the first step toward relationships that nourish you, not drain you.

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